Dating career guy
You'll get a real rush from dating a guy who never interrupts you.
Or, if he does, he immediately notices and says sorry.
We went out maybe 5 times before she told me that she couldn’t continue to see me. There is the 40-year-old guy who stays in a safe low-end job because he has no real ambitions for his career.
There is the 30-year-old guy who is content playing video games and smoking pot and doesn’t take any initiative in getting an adult life on track. “Successful in his last profession, but wasn’t happy with his job anymore and decided to leave.
Mind you, I don’t expect extravagant dates and I have paid for half our dates. I would not hesitate to get in a relationship with him if he was more stable.) –Jane Dear Jane, Once upon a time, I met a 31-year-old woman who we’ll call Donna. My situation was based on choosing a highly risky career in Hollywood in my 20’s; it wasn’t some sort of slacker/character defect. I was hurt and used it as fuel to further my career.
To the OP, the only thing I would say is that unless he is hitting you up for cash to pay your bills, his financial status shouldnt matter at this point in the game.
You paid for half your dates which is a great move.
You’ll never come home exhausted from work and feel like you have to nonstop gab right away. Shyness is p strongly correlated to modesty, and if you don’t ask him for details on how his big pitch at work went, he’ll probably skirt right over it.
You can both cuddle without the crushing pressure of filling every minuscule gap in a conversation. The bigger the accomplishment, the more your convo feels like 20 questions. And you’re constantly learning crazy huge chunks of information about him. He’ll also ask you things no one else ever thought to. Because he’s not the type to interject a lot (or, at all), bigger group settings make him seem like all he’s secretly roasting everyone in his head between every silent, polite nod. Because he’s so shy, the people who end up being his closest friends are usually the kinder, more patient people who won’t immediately write off that person standing awkwardly by themselves at a party.