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In a way, it is like seeing a color no one else can see.
It's probably easiest to say it's kind of an aura thing.
I stood about 6'2", broad shouldered and long limbed.
I had always been athletic and wrestled in high school, along with running the quarter mile and up in track.
Certain women radiate on a certain frequency and we ropers are tuned to that frequency. (I suppose that other types radiate in other spectrums to which other sensitives are attuned, but if so the Association has never bothered to fund studying it.) The more submissive they are, the stronger we sense their aura.
When they are aroused, especially being dominated, the aura is stronger and can even bring mild euphoria to the roper.
I also had that thing for singling out subs and was quickly figuring out what worked on them.
The problem was, while I was having decent quantities of sex, I was holding back.
I was ready to push things further, but did not want to wind up in jail or hurting someone who didn't want to be hurt because I misread things.
Imagine being able to go into a crowded party and being able to zero in instantly on the submissive women. She's not a sub, but the girl trying to strike up a conversation with her is, big time. I found that with some girls who had the aura, being a dominant pushy asshole worked well.
For others, it was a quiet intensity that got the submissive juices flowing.
I still had trouble with women, the aura thing would come and go, sometimes at unexpected times.
I learned to wear loose clothing that would hide my eight inches when the breeze changed directions and it came to attention.